update adds link to earlier article
Forbes.com on Wednesday yanked an article it published on Aug. 21 containing reasons for men not to marry “career women” and reposted the story with a “rebuttal” after readers and bloggers from Gawker.com and Boing Boing to the Huffingtonpost.com freaked.
The article, by Forbes’s executive news editor Michael Noer, who also wrote an earlier treatise on the economics of getting married versus hiring a prostitute, contained references to a number of studies on ”career women” and how they make for a rocky marriage.
Choice nuggets below:
“Guys: A word of advice. Marry pretty women or ugly ones. Short ones or tall ones. Blondes or brunettes. Just, whatever you do, don’t marry a woman with a career.”
“A recent study in Social Forces, a research journal, found that women–even those with a ‘feminist’ outlook–are happier when their husband is the primary breadwinner. Not a happy conclusion, especially given that many men, particularly successful men, are attracted to women with similar goals and aspirations. And why not? After all, your typical career girl is well-educated, ambitious, informed and engaged. All seemingly good things, right? Sureat least until you get married. Then, to put it bluntly, the more successful she is the more likely she is to grow dissatisfied with you. Sound familiar?”
In case you were wondering how one defines so-called ”career girls”, he helps out with a glossary definition:
“For our purposes, a ‘career girl’ has a university-level (or higher) education, works more than 35 hours a week outside the home and makes more than $30,000 a year.”
By Wednesday evening Aug. 23, a Forbes spokeswoman notified us that the article is back up, this time with a “rebuttal” entitled “Don’t Marry a Lazy Man” from Elizabeth Corcoran in the magazine’s Silicon Valley bureau running alongside Noer’s original story. Corcoran’s piece notes that “men should stand up to their responsibilities too.”
We just miss the sidebar list of “Nine Reasons To Steer Clear Of Career Women” which we couldn’t find after Forbes.com reposted the article. (update: We found the link to the sidebar but the pictures were gone.) The picture of the cheese doodles spilled on the couch to illustrate that marrying a career woman could lead to dirtier houses was priceless.
In a similar vein last February 14, Forbes.com ran a valentine by Noer, entitled “The Economics of Prostitution,” on a study debating the economics underpinning hiring a prostitute versus getting married.
Noer did not return the voicemail message we left.
Thanks to this Web site for keeping the article alive during the dark hours.

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And Shoelover thought that all guys looked for were big breasts
- Posted by shoeloverxoxo
Shoelover
Forbes should be ashamed of ALL of those articles!!! They are ALL sexist for both men and women!!
In this economy, nobody can afford for thier spouse to stay home and not work at a paying job.. (unless you are a disgustingly rich waste of human flesh that doesn’t have to pay high taxes like us middle class people do)
And anyway, what gives to writers at Forbes the right to tell people how to live their lives or who they should and shouldn’t marry? Give me a break, Forbes! I think I’ll light my fireplace with a Forbes magazine this winter.
- Posted by Fluffy BunnyHere we go with political correctness gone wild.
I thought you libs were for free speech…. O wait, only if it carefully toes the liberal line. Thats right.
Why do you care what they right? If you don’t like it then don’t read it or believe it. Why are you so insecure about other people’s ideas?
- Posted by Mark[...] Unfortunately, the original article was yanked yesterday by the quailing Forbes editors and then reposted (with rebuttal but sans sideshow slideshow). Thanks to some alert folks, though, you can still find the original and the slideshow text (a must read!). [...]
- Posted by Polimom Says » Does Michael Noer type with his toes?First question that cames to mind is this: why is this article so inflamatory?
I would like not to call the writer a sexist or. Simply he stated an opinion which quite frankly represents state of mind of a part of male population. OK. So guys like him will seek to marry those that do not have career. What is wrong with that? And those that do not share this opinion, will marry with those that do have a career.
Where I am going with this? Marriage is not a standardized equation and it should not be!
I am not afraid for career women, being one myself, at all. Those that are trully secure in themselves cannot feel threatened for a minute with this article.
Afterall, not all women choose to have a career, and many find happiness to marry guys who do not want a career wife. The key is to find the one that will match. And for once, give up the “models” and build your own relationship, marriage or not, to make yourself and your partner happy!
In addition for educational purposes I refer to these articles:
The New Trophy Wife
Alpha women are highly sought-after partners, but men may be more intimidated than they admit.
by Deborah Seigel
and
Modernizing marriage
Equality and flexibilitymake better husbands and wives.
by Pepper Schwartz
Bottom line - people should look for a model of marriage that makes them happy, traditional one is good for some and for some not. Good luck in the search!
I am glad my search is over for now with a happy end and I wish the same to all - career having or not.
signed:
- Posted by Juliamarried for 10 years career woman.
“Mark” wrote:
Here we go with political correctness gone wild.
I thought you libs were for free speech. O wait, only if it carefully toes the liberal line. Thats right.
Why do you care what they right? If you dont like it then dont read it or believe it. Why are you so insecure about other peoples ideas?
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And I’m only expressing MY freedom of speech… Why are you so insecure about MY ideas? If YOU don’t like MY opinions, don’t read them. Do you really care if I’m insecure or not? Is it going to greatly affect you if my day isn’t complete without using my “liberalism” to “whine” about something? Get a life, Mike.
- Posted by Fluffy BunnyA happier marriage… until the husband leaves the wife that has not worked in years because she has relied on him for everything and now he is bored! A woman is much more desirable to their man when she has her own things going on and does not rely totally on him. She is also much more secure and able to recover from a husband no longer in the picture.
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