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08:06 April 10th, 2008

Mormons have “fundamental” PR problem

Posted by: Ed Stoddard
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Warren Jeffs in the dock in St. George, Utah, 21 Sept, 2007/poolThe Mormon faith — or Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints as it is officially called — has a “fundamental” PR problem.

It may have renounced polygamy over a century ago but the breakaway sects which continue to practice plural marriage are the ones that often catch the public eye, leading to the popular misconception that all Mormon men have, or strive to have, more than one (often underage) wife.

This was driven home to me as investigators late last week swooped on a polygamist compound in a remote part of west Texas in response to an abuse complaint.

The compound belongs to followers of jailed polygamist leader Warren Jeffs and is linked to the Fundamentalist Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, which broke away from the main branch of the faith decades ago.

Over 400 children were yanked from the Texas facility over the course of the weekend and into the early part of this week, providing a riveting spectacle in a dusty corner of the state.

Television footage showed young girls in long, apparently homemade “pioneer dresses” boarding buses. Some who looked to be in their early teens carried infant children. Texas child welfare officials said it was their biggest operation ever.

As all of this was unfolding my wife happened to mention to a friend of hers in South Africa — a friend who is well-educated, a journalist and a devout Christian — that I was covering the story. Her friend’s response?  “Those Mormons, they’re weird. I don’t answer the door when they knock,” she said. My wife said as far as her friend was concerned, Mormons were Mormons and that was that.

Salt Lake Mormon Temple in Salt Lake City, 28 May 2007/Lucy NicholsonOf course, the mainstream Mormon church, which claims a worldwide membership of around 13 million, is the one sending missionaries around the globe to knock on doors and spread the faith.

The renegade polygamist sects whose followers number several thousand (some estimates are as high as 40,000 or more) are not knocking on doors in Johannesburg. But the perception is clearly there: Mormons are the funny fellows taking multiple wives and living in isolated retreats in remote patches of America.

In places like Texas, the mainstream Mormon faith — based in Salt Lake City, Utah — has to contend with plenty of suspicion anyway.

Southern Baptists and other evangelicals widely regard Mormonism as an almost sinister cult which is successfully competing for souls among the faithful. They regard Joseph Smith, who founded the faith in New York state in 1830, as a false prophet. Southern Baptists are taught in Sunday School to be wary of that “knock on the door” from Mormon missionaries.

Against this backdrop the last thing the mainstream LDS needs is more bad press stemming from its fundementalist kin. The Texas media is abuzz about the probe and court documents alleging a compound rife with sexual abuse and girls being forced into “spiritual marriage” after reaching puberty.

One also gets the impression that Texas authorities were chomping at the bit to take the place down, given the scale of the operation in response to complaints allegedly made by one person.

But it has all served to reinforce popular stereotypes of the Mormon faith — and that must be causing discomfit in Salt Lake City.

161 comments so far

Members of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints do have leaders and they are united in following them. But they also have personal knowledge and testimonies that come directly from God. Members have a personal relationship with God the Father, and His Son, Jesus Christ, through the witness of the Holy Ghost. So what people unfamiliar with the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints call \”blind obedience\” is nothing more than members of the church acting on their personal knowledge that comes to them through the Holy Ghost and through inspired leaders — two independent channels of divine guidance (from the same divine source) to bless us in this troubled world.

- Posted by jc

The modern day Mormons, or Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints would revert back to the practice of polygamy if their church prophet told them he had a revelation and the God gold him to go back to polygamy. Mormons are brainwashed to obey the church, no matter what they say, and not to question.

The mormons were told to stop practicing polygamy 100 years ago, because their “prophet” told them to. What happened was that they began to see they were not fitting into society, and the church leaders knew there would have to be a “revelation” to stop polygamy. They couldn’t just “decide” to stop.

The mormons used to teach the black race were outcast in God’s eyes. When they saw where that was going, someone again had a “revelation”. They change their writings according to the popular culture, or if they see that their teachings are going to get some of their members thrown into jail.

The FLDS are definitely of the same religion as the LDS. The only difference is that it was taken over by a group of the more sexually deviant men, who wanted to continue their harems and mind control over women and children and didn’t want to give up polygamy. These folks are not very book smart because of the many years of in-breeding.
The reason the FLDS are not out proseletizing and are secluded in a compound is that they know what they are doing is against the law. They stay secluded to practice their perveted sex in the name of religion. The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints decided 100 years ago, that in order to stay out of jail they had to give it up. They wanted to make sure they appear legitimate. Like I said, they are smarter than the FLDS.

But, both the FLDS and the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints have rewritten the life story and the teachings of Jesus. They have made up their version of history in the United States. They base their religion on following their church teachings in order to spend eternity in the Celestial Kingdom. They both teach blind obedience. They are BOTH cults!

I know some Baptists, and they are not out to get money for their church. They are out to tell the lost world about how the ONLY way to God is thru Jesus Christ. They do not say the only way to God is thru the “Baptist Church”. Baptists are followers of Jesus of the Bible, who taught salvation by faith in Jesus Christ. The Baptists I know have not written books that overwrite the Holy Scriptures of the Bible. Baptists do not believe a wife has to go before Joseph Smith, the Mormon Jesus and her husband to see if she is worthy for entry to Heaven. Baptists to not demand blind obedience of the church leaders. Baptists do not demand that the children must only marry a Baptist. Baptists do not believe they will someday be a God of their own planet.

- Posted by Paula

It’s clear that TX CPS has a great deal more to sort through concerning the YfZ Ranch and it’s inhabitants. It’s also clear that the US and the membership of the LDS have a great deal more to learn and understand about the history of the LDS/FLDS.

I can understand the pain this causes the LDS community, but in trying to differentiate themselves from the FLDS they must own the fact that Joseph Smith introduced the concept of polygamy to the US. In addition, both Joseph Smith and Brigham Young married women as young as 14 years old and used their religious doctrine to intimidate the young women and/or their fathers to get their consent. They both did it in IN where and when it was specifically illegal. And Joseph Smith ordered the destruction of private property and a newspaper that was making that information public.

Brigham Young ordered his followers, at great personal sacrifice and risk of life, to evacuate to remote territories where they could continue to practice polygamy, a socialist economy and declare war on the United States in support of his autocracy and polygamy.

Ever since, the elite of the LDS have used that authority to declare leaders from their own circle of people with polygamous ancestries. In fact, the LDS has not removed the specific doctrines recorded in their scripture “Doctrines and Covenants” (section 132) that authorize polygamous marriages and continues to seal them for eternity in this modern era.

It’s important that we take neither the similarities or distinctions at face value but examine history to draw conclusions.

- Posted by april

Most of these fundamental lds groups started after two apostles resigned from the quorum of the 12 in 1906. The names of the apostles who disagreed on the polygamy manifesto were John W. Taylor and Matthias F. Cowley.
Currently the only polygamy the church authorizes is the sealing of a man to another wife after the death of the first wife. The church headquartered in Utah never annuls the sealing to the first wife after death. This marriage remains in force and they allow the man to marry a second or third wife for eternities. Most other Christian churches annul the first marriage by death whereas Mormons do not. There are only three current apostles of the Church of Jesus Christ of LDS who have entered into these forms of marriage sealings. Elder Dallin H. Oaks entered his first polygamous marriage for eternities when he married a second wife Kristen M. McMain On 25 August 2000. Elder Nelson married his first polygamous wife for eternities in April of 2006 when he married Wendy L. Watson. Elder Perry married a second wife for eternity in April 1976 when he was sealed to Barbara T. Dayton in the Salt Lake temple. Perhaps Elder Richard Scott will find a second sweetheart. It would be tough to work through the scheduling conflicts to go on a date to the Draper Theatre or the like.

- Posted by Falasha

I agree with above. I wish people would just relax and learn to love one another. Let God do the judging, and just pray to learn what is right. Child abuse is obviously not right and it is a sad thing.

- Posted by Rex

So sad to read all of the angry and hateful words of so many people.

- Posted by michelle

The LAST thing those children need is to be placed into ANOTHER ‘cult’, which is what the LDS church is, just in a more politically correct way. They practice the same type of mind control as the FLDS.

Sadly, wherever they are placed is going to be traumatic, but hopefully they will be somewhere where the focus is healing, not eternal salvation. The Moms should not be allowed to continue the psychological abuse by continuing to protect the children’s abusers. If Moms stood by while this was happening they are accountable as well, and need mental health evaluations and treatment to reverse the ideology that has them thinking that what is happening to these children is what God wants and therefore okay and the highest form of ‘love’.

- Posted by whome

I feel for the mothers who have lost their children in the raids. It seems to me that the best place for the little ones would be with a modern family that believes and are members of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints. This wouldn’t be such a shock to the children’s thinking and doctrines.

The mothers from the off-shoot should retain supervised visitation rights or perhaps inclusion into a modern family. Perhaps, if she chose,she could reintegrate into society also.

As I see it the men are the brain washers and beneficiary s of this polygamist sect.

- Posted by Deb Free

The ‘founding’ of the Mormon religion as a true religion is ridiculous. Mormons believe that their religion is the only way to true salvation. Tell that to the billions of people that existed on Earth before Mormonism was ‘discovered’.

Early Mormons were racists and polygamists as this was set out by the doctrine of their prophets. Their prophets are disciples and mouthpieces of God. Later on prophets changed the doctrine to be more palatable. So who was wrong, Joseph Smith or God? I choose the former.

Ultimately any religion when dictated by humans takes on an ugly and vile form. That includes Mormons, Catholics and Muslims.

We are witness to those very examples each and every day.

- Posted by Joseph Smythe

Laurel, I’m impressed with the amount of research you’ve completed and you are no doubt passionate in your dissent. Congratulations, write a book and get it out of your system. After than, steer your passion for truth and accuracy towards something more productive. Fact is, you’re certainly not going to illuminate any devout Church members with your lectures, so stop indulging yourself, push away from the computer and move on. Please don’t bother responding as I won’t be returning; plus, it will just affirm earlier statement.

- Posted by Cutnut

Media also showed that FLDS uses the Book of Mormon just like the LDS along with early sections of Doctrine & Covenants that written by Joseph Smith on CNN. All is well with FLDS and LDS on its origin, history and doctrine. LDS is in denial just like AA adict.

- Posted by stacy

It was interesting to see the pictures of Joseph Smith & Brigham Young in the rooms of TX FLDS on CNN-HD. Until the Utah faith sues anyone who uses LDS as part of their church name, FLDS will be forever link to LDS. I agree with some of the assessments that LDS members who marry 2nd or 3rd time on earth will be reunited with their 1st, 2nd and 3rd wife in after-life. LDS had to renounce polygamy earthly and promised US govt to cease & desist because of fear of losing the statehood of Utah. It does sickens me the origin of my church came from Smith & Young crazy polygamy doctrine. But again, membership needs to increase just like the Jews in the Old Testament and now with Muslims in the Koran. Certainly, sex with teenager/children was approved by Joseph Smith and Brigham Young. Now LDS faith encourages all to marry young without proper dating or getting to know their mates. Because of religious fear-pressure to marry-date at the same time, divorces are now a big problem in LDS community. I do like the church but too many crazy zealots ran this church from day 1. Truly, religion is not common-sense just like the crazy Christian zealots who got us into Iraq based on so-called spiritual executive decision. Whatever!
As you can see, those who based their decisions on too much spiritual emphasis loses their common-sense or logic. That’s a tragedy in the eyes of God who gave us a brain to use for logical thinking and common sense applications. Hope all is well!

- Posted by tonie

Alli

First of all, you know nothing about me, so save the psychobabble.

Secondly, THE CHURCH is responsible for the doctrine, the teachings, the lies and the spiritual abuse, and IT is as responsible for the pain and suffering of people affected by it’s teachings as the Catholic church is for looking the other way and protecting abusers under it’s authority.

Thirdly, talk about twisting a comment. Give me a break. The church sends missionaries to third world countries to proselytize to people who have no means of comprehending what they are getting into. They abuse their position as ‘the messengers of God’s word ‘ and they do it in any place they have an advantage. Look up a few speeches by Mormon leaders and Mission Presidents, they freely admit it is exactly what they are doing. The missionaries are constantly pressured to build up the numbers and anyone even slightly acquainted with the LDS church knows it. It is ALL ABOUT THE NUMBERS!

From Gordon B. Hinckley
“Last year there were approximately 300,000 convert baptisms throughout the Church. This is tremendously significant. This is the equivalent of 120 new stakes of 2,500 members each. Think of that: 120 new stakes in a single year! It is wonderful. But it is not enough. I am not being unrealistic when I say that with concerted effort, with recognition of the duty which falls upon each of us as members of the Church, and with sincere prayer to the Lord for help, we could double that number.”

- Prophet Gordon B. Hinckley, “Find the Lambs, Feed the Sheep,” Ensign, May 1999, p. 104

Lastly, I won’t be so presumptuous as to assume that you are a church member with no defense against the facts resorting to spouting psychobabble to vent your frustrations, but if the shoe fits…

If you aren’t, then maybe you should take off your judgmental glasses and act like the professional you are trying to come across as and educate yourself to the facts before ‘taking sides’ and tossing around labels, which I might add is an odd way for a professional to behave.

Pablo,

A big HUG to you. I am so sorry that the church has another victim in you.

Just remember, even if Joseph Smith’s version of God does not exist, it does not mean no God does.

You wrote:

“What does this have to do with Polygamy, Warren Jeffs and the LDS Church PR dilemma?
Everything! Polygamy is what tore the LDS Church apart at the seems on two occasions. Is it relevant to the modern LDS church because it is still part of our beliefs. It is relevant to the FLDS. Resolving the question about our ties to the FLDS is about the penultimate LDS question–which Church is true? It has been more than 150 years since Joseph Smith lived and died. Here we have a boiling dispute over these fundamental questions?

Would God condemn a man because he can’t believe that a Prophet of God would take another man’s wife as his own. Would He damn another man/woman who left the Church because he/she didn’t cease the practice of polygamy after being taught for many years to defy the US government and practice polygamy illegally because it was Gods will only to be told that it is Gods will that he submit to the authority of the US Government?

Is it unfair persecution of the Church to discuss these things in an open forum? NO!!!!”

- Posted by Pablo

You are exactly right, and brave to say so. I know what you are going through, I have seen and heard it dozens of times as members finally see that they ARE being lied to by the church.

You have done your homework and sadly, as I said before, sometimes the truth is a very painful thing, but better to have integrity and live in truth, and raise your children in truth, than to back away from it in fear of excommunication or discipline from the very people propagating the lies. But then again. what choice does a good Mormon have when the leaders expect this:

“No true Latter-day Saint will ever take a stand that is in opposition to what the Lord has revealed to those who direct the affairs of his earthly kingdom. No Latter-day Saint who is true and faithful in all things will ever pursue a course, or espouse a cause, or publish an article or book that weakens or destroys faith.”

- Apostle Bruce R. McConkie, Conference Report, October 1984, p. 104

Statements from Scholars

“Many things have been intentionally ignored and sometimes concealed or have been taken to have religious meanings or implications which, in my opinion, have no religious connections whatsoever. I believe that the Church has intentionally distorted its own history by dealing fast and loose with historical data and imposing theological and religious interpretations on the data that are entirely unwarranted.”

- Sterling McMurrin, Mormon scholar, “7EP Interview: Sterling M. McMurrin,” by Blake Ostler, Seventh East Press, January 11, 1983, p. 1

“Mormon historians are told to write church history as elementarily as possible and as defensively as possible. This is accommodation history for the weakest of the weak Latter-day Saints, for the vilest of the vile anti-Mormons, and for the most impressionable of the world’s sycophants….

“Historians did not create problem areas of the Mormon past, but most of us cannot agree to conceal them, either. We are trying to respond to those problem areas of Mormon experience. Attacking the messenger does not alter the reality of the message.”

- D. Michael Quinn, see Mormon Mavericks: Essays on Dissenters, p. 339

“Three apostles gave orders for my stake president to confiscate my temple recommend. Six years earlier, I had formally notified the First Presidency and the Managing Director of the Church Historical Department about my research on post-Manifesto polygamy and my intention to publish it. Now I was told that three apostles believed I was guilty of ‘speaking evil of the Lord’s anointed.’ The stake president was also instructed ‘to take further action’ against me if this did not ‘remedy the situation’ of my writing controversial Mormon history.
“James M. Paramore, the area president who relayed these orders, instructed my stake presidency to tell me that this was a local decision and reflected their own judgment of the state of my church membership. My stake president replied that he was not going to tell me something which was untrue. Instead, the stake president informed me how this order came about and how they had resisted the area president for more than two hours. Unlike the area president, my stake president and one of his counselors had already read the Dialogue article. My stake presidency saw nothing in it to justify what they were being required by church headquarters to do to me.
“I told my stake president that I would not tell colleagues or friends about this because I did not want to be the center of more publicity. However, I told the stake president that this was an obvious effort to intimidate me from doing history that might ‘offend the Brethren’ (to use Ezra Taft Benson’s phrase). I didn’t feel I should be punished for describing Mormon events which the current general authorities wished I had never occurred. I said it was wrong-headed for them to confiscate my temple recommend, and that ‘I won’t be intimidated by anybody.’”

- D. Michael Quinn, “On Being a Mormon Historian,” pp. 91-92

“Revelations have been revised whenever necessary. That is the nice thing about revelation – it is strictly open-ended.”

- Hugh Nibley, LDS scholar, letter to Morris L. Reynolds, May 12, 1966, quoted in Tanner, Case Against Mormonism, 1967, v. 1, p. 132

THE LDS PROPHETS/LEADERS:

“[Joseph said] ‘God does not care if we have a good time, if only other people do not know it’…. If any woman, like me, opposed his wishes, he used to say: ‘Be silent, or I shall ruin your character.’”

- Sarah Pratt, in Wyl, Mormon Portraits, p. 62

“My boy, you always keep your eye on the President of the Church, and if he tells you to do something wrong, and you do it, the Lord will bless you for it.”

- Prophet Heber J. Grant, as quoted by Apostle Marion G. Romney in “The Covenant of the Priesthood,” Ensign, July 1972, p. 98

“He [Joseph Smith, Jr.] was sealed there [in Kirtland] secretly to Fanny Alger. Emma was furious, and drove the girl, who was unable to conceal the consequences of her celestial relation with the prophet, out of her house.”

- Chauncey Webb, Ann Eliza’s father, see In Sacred Loneliness: The Plural Wives of Joseph Smith, by Todd Compton, pp. 34-35

“Again I told her [Emma] I heard that one night she missed Joseph and Fanny Alger. She went to the barn and saw him and Fanny in the barn together alone. She looked through a crack and saw the transaction!! She told me this story too was verily true.”

- William McLellin, 1872 letter to Joseph Smith III, see In Sacred Loneliness: The Plural Wives of Joseph Smith, by Todd Compton, p. 35

“If I had forty wives in the United States, they did not know it, and could not substantiate it, neither did I ask any lawyer, judge, or magistrate for them. I live above the law, and so do this people.”

- Prophet Brigham Young, Journal of Discourses, v. 1, p. 361

“April 17.- This day the Twelve blessed and drank a bottle of wine at Penworthan, made by Mother Moon forty years before.”

- Prophet Joseph Smith, Jr., History of the Church, v. 4, p. 120, Friday, April 17, 1840

“Joseph Smith tried the faith of the Saints many times by his peculiarities. At one time, he had preached a powerful sermon on the Word of Wisdom, and immediately thereafter, he rode through the streets of Nauvoo smoking a cigar. Some of the brethren were as tried as Abraham of old.”

- Joseph Smith as an Administer, BYU Masters Thesis, May 1969, p. 161

( members wonder why there is an image problem?)

“Q. What does the Lord require of the people of the United States?
A. He requires them to repent of all their sins and embrace the message of salvation, contained in the Book of Mormon, and be baptized into THIS church, and prepare themselves for the coming of the Lord.
Q. What will be the consequence if they do not embrace the Book of Mormon as a divine revelation?
A.They will be DESTROYED from the land and SENT DOWN TO HELL, like all other generations who have rejected a divine message!”

- Apostle Orson Pratt, The Seer, Washington, D.C., 1854, p. 215

“SAINTS ARE THE BEST PEOPLE…. and in many ways superior to any other people.”

- Prophet Joseph Fielding Smith, Doctrines of Salvation, 1954, v. 1, p. 236

“Our message is so imperative, when you stop to think about the salvation, the eternal salvation of the world, rests upon the shoulders of this Church. When all is said and done, if the world is going to be saved, we have to do it. There is no escaping from that. No other people in the history of the world have received the kind of mandate that we have received. We are responsible for all who have lived upon the earth, and that involves our missionary work. And we are going to be responsible for all who will yet live upon the earth.”

- Prophet Gordon B. Hinckley, Church News, July 3, 1999, p. 3

Is this arrogance and superiority a figment of the ‘anti-Mormon’ imagination? No, no more than the 30 plus wives of Joseph Smith were.

You can shoot the messenger, but the message remains. The number of members leaving the church and the compulsion of T. Monson to beg (guilt?) them to come back is no coincidence. The word is out and moving faster than a swarm of Mormon crickets and is just as unstoppable.

Both members of the FLDS and the LDS have been deceived by the same ‘prophet’ and let down by the same church and the legacy belongs to the leaders of the church as it is now. To ‘disown’ those women and children (and men who were faithful but not abusive) is unconscionable. But alas, all the LDS church cares about is it’s image and making sure the world knows they are not ‘THOSE’ Mormons.

The only ‘good’ that can come from all of this is that maybe those who need help to get out of the trap will get it, and maybe all of the publicity will teach members of the LDS church that it is time they owned their history. Also, if one post like Pablo’s (or mine) prompts one person to look into the church before being led blindly into it, or one already in the church and sick of the lies to get out of it, then it will have been worth the time it took to try to reason with anyone here.

Pablo, my very best wishes to you, you have a long road ahead but there are many others you can talk to out there, reach out to them, they are there to help. I hope you will find peace and comfort and safe place for your faith.

I am through here. This is about the connection between the FLDS and the LDS and their mutual history and the effects of that history is undeniable. There are volumes more to say, but this isn’t the place to say it, I have said what I wanted to say.

Ciao

- Posted by Laurel

I AM AN LDS, A MORMON! I PRAYED ABOUT THE CHURCH AND HAD A SPIRITUAL EXPERIENCE AS A YOUNG BOY. IT WAS UNDENIABLY REAL. JOSEPH SMITH WAS ALWAYS ONE OF MY GREATEST HEROS. BUT …

The story that I prayed about was not 100% accurate.

I was taught that Joseph Smith did not practice polygamy.

Later I was taught that he practiced polygamy but married only ugly old spinsters so that they could receive the blessings of the temple.

Later, I learned that he married some very young girls over his first wife’s objection. I learned that he proposed marriage to other women who were married to living spouses at the time.

When I was told about Joseph’ Smith’s persecution in Kirtland while living at the Johnson home, I was not told that the primary motive for the mob was that Joseph Smith was caught in an undignified and compromising situation with the daughter of his host. It was her brother that instigated the mob with the intention of castrating Joseph Smith. Perhaps, the allegations were untrue. However, the girl that was caught with Joseph Smith was later sealed to him as his plural wife.

The manifesto may not have been a libelous document. It exposed things that were actually happening–secret things, dirty things. If you don’t believe it get a copy and read it. It is an important document to the LDS Church History.

I was taught that the Church was thrown out of Missouri because of their conviction to oppose the institution of slavery that was embraced by most Missourians at the time.

I was later shocked to find that Utah was a slave territory by popular election of a population that was almost entirely Mormon. Read your history books!

Brigham Young did teach a vile and racist doctrine about the African Americans. I was shocked to read the Journal of Discourses where he said that he would never let a black man have priesthood authority over him.

He described them not only as descendants of Cain, but in a degrading, derogatory manner.

I was not taught the doctrine of blood atonement as a youth. Brigham Young taught that there are some sins that are too great for the Atonement of Jesus Christ to cover. People need their blood to be ritually shed and that blood must return to the earth. WOW, how could that be if the Atonement is infinite and eternal? Was he wrong? What about the security net that says the Lord will not permit His prophet from teaching false doctrine and leading the Church into falsehood? Rather, He would remove the Prophet.

So how can a Prophet be a true Prophet if he makes these and other mistakes? Is it enough to say that he was only human? It appropriate to hold Joseph Smith as a Prophet to a lower standard that its present membership.

SO HERE IS MY DILEMMA! I prayed to ask if the LDS Church is true. I recieved what I would describe as a witness. But actual historical records contradict what I thought the Church represented. I prayed in part about lies.

What is the point of telling one to ask if the Church is true if what you told them about the Church in the first place false?

The Prophet Joseph Smith was supposed to end all questions about which Church is true. Yet there are people from different branches of the LDS Church that fervently believe their sect is true? They believe the mainstream LDS Church is wrong? How are they to know?

What does this have to do with Polygamy, Warren Jeffs and the LDS Church PR dilemma?

Everything! Polygamy is what tore the LDS Church apart at the seems on two occasions. Is it relevant to the modern LDS church because it is still part of our beliefs. It is relevant to the FLDS. Resolving the question about our ties to the FLDS is about the penultimate LDS question–which Church is true? It has been more than 150 years since Joseph Smith lived and died. Here we have a boiling dispute over these fundamental questions?

Would God condemn a man because he can’t believe that a Prophet of God would take another man’s wife as his own. Would He damn another man/woman who left the Church because he/she didn’t cease the practice of polygamy after being taught for many years to defy the US government and practice polygamy illegally because it was Gods will only to be told that it is Gods will that he submit to the authority of the US Government?

Is it unfair persecution of the Church to discuss these things in an open forum? NO!!!!

- Posted by Pablo

To keep it short, I must say, Laurel, your comment that the Church “destroyed” your family is enough for me to understand that you are one of those people who can take no responsibility for your own actions. I see many people in my line of work (psychology) who spout excuse after excuse, naming big corporations and countless innocent people for their own demise, pain and dischord in their lives. I’m sure that the LDS Church, the one situated in Salt Lake City took the time to destroy your family…just like it’s Governor Schwarzenegger is personally killing my lawn because he imposed limits on water usage, right? Riiiiiiight. Also, about your first comment (or may I call it a bitter rant?) I especially enjoyed the part where you say the Church baptizes people in third world countries who don’t know what they’re doing. Oh that’s right, because everyone outside of the U.S. has a low IQ? To be completely honest, you’re exhibiting signs of a sociopath, in it’s clinical definition. Take a breather.

- Posted by Alli

Paulette,

As I said before, you are free to worship as you please, but the arrogant “pray about it” you and those of your faith shove down others throats is exactly why people are now defending themselves and their families and trying to protect others from the same fate our loved ones met with when they fell for your saccharin ‘milk before meat’ pitch when they were young and vulnerable.

I have NEVER In my life bashed anyone who lived or believed differently from myself, but the LDS church has certainly opened my eyes to the hidden dangers behind the ‘family first’ PR campaign and the constant claim of persecution. The LDS church is a wolf in sheep’s clothing and there are THOUSANDS upon THOUSANDS of families who have been destroyed by them, mine being one of them. I lived it. The fact that you can respond to my comments and not give a good ‘Christian’ hoot what your ‘people’ have done to me and my family, or anyone else’s, is exactly the point. And that INCLUDES those in Texas who are now suffering because of one con mans brilliant scam.

So, defend your church, deny the truth (because we all know, you have the one TRUE church and have cornered the market on ALL truth) and ignore the facts…go for it. But as long as your church and it’s blind followers continue to destroy others in your path on the way to the celestial kingdom people are going to speak out against you. You can watch those children be ripped from their families because of what your prophet introduced to this country out of greed, you can look the other way when your missionaries entice the vulnerable to believe them, turn a blind eye to the record breaking use of anti-depressants among Mormon women and sing “If You Could Hie To Kolob” at the top of your lungs to drown out the anguished cries of family members who watch their bright, ambitious family members become robots repeating what the Mormon leaders pound into their heads…it won’t make it okay.

If you can sleep at night in your state of denial, congratulations. You are one up on the parents who can’t sleep worrying about their son being abused in some unfamiliar country unable to reach out to his family while on his mission, or their young daughter burdened with 5 kids before she turns 24 with not enough money to care for them properly and depression so deep she cries herself to sleep most nights wondering how she was so foolish as to buy into all of this, knowing she has no way out.

All I can say is YOU better pray that YOU are right, because if you aren’t the pain of millions falls on the shoulders of the church and no amount of buying up the land their bodies litter ala Mountain Meadows will cover up what your church has done to innocent people.

I have a clear conscience knowing I supported your right to your beliefs, and taught my children the same. What I got for my kindness and support of your faith was the loss of two beloved young family members who where lied to and coaxed away from us. On the ‘advice’ of your wise leaders, they have no contact with the parents who raised them, loved them, supported them and taught them to care about YOU. And THEIR family is ‘led by Satan’ in their mind thanks to the Mormon teachings. They now live with a Mormon family who keeps them so insulated and controlled that they can’t even accept a phone call without feeling guilty. THAT is what your church does to people, and it is NOT an isolated case. They stole our family members, lied to us and them, and never looked back or cared about who they hurt. They had two more converts to brag about, woohoo!

Your church is turning the same blind eye to it’s responsibility to those devastated families in Texas. So how about YOU pray about THAT. They, and all the others hurt by the ’salvation at all costs, in the name of God’ mentality are the ones who need the prayers of everyone here.

Do I ‘hate’ the Mormons? No, I hate what Mormonism has does to families, and it is high time the church stopped denying it and began reparation and took a long look at more than just it’s image.

Talk is cheap. I hope those commenting here will see what, if anything, they can do to help those families through this terrible time. They will be suffering long after the media loses interest in them and will need all of the help and support they can get in the coming months.

- Posted by Laurel

My favorite parts of Laurel’s hysterical (in more ways than one!) comments were the ones talking about swanky limos, million-dollar condos, and fancy suits. Hilarious. These people (church leaders) DON’T GET PAID!!! The few men who serve for life such as the apostles and the First Presidency receive a small living allowance and the president has a modest 3 bedroom condo adjacent to Temple Square (mostly for safety reasons). I am in a unique position to laugh out loud at the idea that the leaders of the Mormon church are rich schemers with bank accounts in the Caymans. They work hard until they die! At what point, may I ask, was Gordon B. Hinckley going to retire and live the high life on his misbegotten nest egg? He was still working 10 hours a day, 7 days a week at 97 YEARS OLD! Guess it’s a little late to pull out the suntan lotion, huh. I am still laughing over this hilarious assertion. This ridiculous claim also takes any credibility Laurel may have had with me and sends it down the drain.

- Posted by GBM

Responding to Laurel…

You talk of facts repeatedly in your reply, yet you fail to mention any single fact. You talk of lies that the authorities of the church perpetuate, yet you fail to identify any. You talk of the leaders of the church “preying” on the weak, needy, yet you haven’t identified the ways you percieve the LDS church is decieving, hurting, stealing, or manipulating anyone. You confirm your bitterness yourself, and you challenge others to “Find out what makes you bitter”. Why then didn’t you outline in your response all of those things that have made you bitter. I would like to know. I have an open mind. Do it succinctly, in bullet format so that it is accessible and state the facts!

You further challenged people to take what you have written to their church and ask members to disprove what you have said…again I read your entire response but didn’t really see any substantive facts or arguments to disprove. It’s mostly rhetoric and rambling.

I will agree that the LDS church has a lot of money, but the church only asks members to pay tithing (10%)…no different than most other Christian churches. No different than what Abraham did when he was the prophet in the old testament, yes he paid tithing too. Furthermore, anyone in the church can still choose NOT to pay tithing with no repercussions other than qualifying to attend the temple. I can tell you that there is no “IRS” equivalent in the LDS Church. No one has ever come to my door threatening to take all that I own because I didn’t pay my tithing.

The church leadership is a group of men who sacrifice significantly to serve in the leadership. I am not brainwashed…I know many of them personally and have seen the homes where they live before, during and after their callings to be leaders. They live humble lives. They don’t go and spend money at bars, on hookers, or fine dining. They don’t drive fancy cars or have huge Plasma TV’s that they buy with the tithing money! Never once has anyone asked me to do something in the church that was remotely uncomfortable let alone illegal. I have never been asked to decieve anyone or

Share the facts with us at to how the Church preyed upon you, decieved you, lied to you etc. It sounds to me like you expect perfection from everyone around you. You expect a bishop or stake president to be perfect. You expect Joseph Smith or the Pres. Monson to be perfect. What is perfection in your mind? That they don’t offend you? You forget then that there was only one PERFECT person, Jesus Christ himself…and look how many people he offended despite his perfection? He offended those money changers at the temple. He offended the jews! He offended the Romans! Yet so many today so casually accept that he was perfect and the Son of God.

Most of us recognize the imperfections of human kind. We all make mistakes and we all need forgiveness. That’s why Jesus came to earth, to provide a way to be forgiven for our mistakes. The real lesson we need to learn in this life is how to forgive others. That’s the key to happiness in this life. As we hold on to anger and bitterness is corrodes our soul and blinds us to what is good.

You accuse people of “blind faith” but fail to realize that ALL faith is “blind”. The definition of faith is to believe without seeing, without knowing. That is what Jesus taught. If you don’t believe in the basic principles of God the Supreme Being and Jesus Christ, then most of this won’t make sense anyway. This life is all about making your own personal choices and living the best you can with them.

- Posted by Jared

Can we get to the bigger issue? The issue is that these poor children were forcibly removed from their mothers without any proof that they were in harms way. THis could easily happen in the instance of a ward or branch. Say someone abuses a child in a certain ward, do all the members of that ward lose custody of their children? WHo will stand up for these rights of these poor innocent mothers and children? Would this happen in a Muslim area? How about Catholic? Have their children been molested? What about homosexuals? If one of their children are molested, should all homosexual parents lose their children? DO you think that would happen? NO! It only happens to the FLDS children.
First they came for the Jews
and I did not speak out
because I was not a Jew.
Then they came for the Communists
and I did not speak out
because I was not a Communist.
Then they came for the trade unionists
and I did not speak out
because I was not a trade unionist.
Then they came for me
and there was no one left to speak.
(Pastor Martin Niemoller)

- Posted by Jo

For information on Black members of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints please see: http://www.blacklds.org

- Posted by SA

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