Comments on: Lindsay Lohan, Samantha Ronson dating — that’s news?

By: Clara Snyder

Clara Snyder — Mon, 20 Oct 2008 01:45:26 +0000

to be honest from a bisexual point of view i am sure that no idiot would ever date someone move in with them and look cozy while doing all this.cause if someone is putting on an act u can tell even if the person is an actress lol. i love lindsey lohan and if she is happy that is a good thing but havent u noticed that she hasnt been in trouble with the law since she has been dating samantha? then it must be a good thing.
love you lindsey.
Clara

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Kathleen Bryson writer/co-director - Viva Voce Virus | friction — Mon, 13 Oct 2008 16:22:41 +0000

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By: Lucky

Lucky — Sat, 27 Sep 2008 06:12:25 +0000

I couldn’t agree with you more Champ. Cassie, can you name one celebrity who has pretended to be gay in order to get more media attention? I am always amazed by the power of heterosexism and patriarchy to perpetuate the idea that no woman is ever really a lesbian. If a woman has ever slept with/married/dated a man and is now with a woman she is seen to be 1. experimenting, 2. bisexual, if she is lucky, and 3. rarely a lesbian, unless she is butch. So many people spend so much time denying, minimizing and negating the fact that women choose women. I have never heard a similar discussion about a man who sleeps with men. Imagine the absurdity of wondering if Clay Aiken just came out for media attention! We allow men sexual autonomy from women but we are so reluctant to believe that women can be sexually independent from men. I don’t know if Lindsay Lohan is bisexual or lesbian but I am pretty sure if her male equivalents openly dated men there wouldn’t be an obsessive desire to prove he must be faking for attention, or experimenting.

By: kelly

kelly — Fri, 26 Sep 2008 21:30:04 +0000

You obviously dont get the gay thing Bob? Is it REALLY news that a talent contest runner up has come out? Come on! In Europe there are lots of Gay people(including celebrities) who do’nt get labeled as ‘experimenting with their sexuality’. Obviously labels are such a big deal where you live and privacy seems a thing of mystery and somewhat male ego. Good luck in that world

Kelly xxx

By: sera

sera — Fri, 26 Sep 2008 13:53:19 +0000

if she feels comfortable with who she is with,then its ok.
i feel everyone has a right to choose whom they fall inlove with.same sax or different,it really doesnt matter except she is religious.
so for her to check what she believes in ,thats all that counts.
you have fun girl but remember,u work on what you really want and stick to it.

By: Champ

Champ — Fri, 26 Sep 2008 06:21:28 +0000

I think she is gay all the way. All her behaviors point out that she had been dating men to pass. Short relationships…if you count a weekend being a relationship. Really good looking men in successions frequently, in very short dating periods. Drugs abuses and other behavior are also signs of a person unable to cope with passing.

Just because a lesbian who slept with a man before does not mean the person is bisexual.

If you read Ronson’s blog, you can actually see that the relationship had been there for a very long time, way longer than most people, including the gossip journalists realize. Certainly before 2008, or much earlier. You just have to keep reading her blog backwards, not her own posts, but others comments to put the whole picture together.

This also means that, any men should dated, was also part of an act of passing.

Her entire behavior changed, IMHO, is a realization during rehab that she might have found out the root cause of the problems, accepted herself, and decided not to pass anymore. Maybe she decided that there was no need to date men to pass so that one could have a career in Hollywood. She would not have a career anyway if she was still continue to be a mess.

Speaking of which, there is really nothing Ronson could gain by dating Lohan. Her own family is rich enough that there is no need to date someone to be rich and famous. She was a successful DJ (albeit not a superstar) of her own right. If she wants publicity she can hang out with her brother 24/7 and that would be good enough.

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By: Wen

Wen — Fri, 26 Sep 2008 03:23:37 +0000

I think that Lindsay is probably a bisexual. If she was just experimenting, would she go so far as to move in with Samantha and spend so much time with her? This isn’t just about sex, it seems like something deeper. Although, I imagine that inevitably she’ll wind up with a man… maybe not, though. I don’t really see what she’s sees in Sam… I heard her on an interview and she seems like a barfly, alki druggie type… maybe that’s what they have in common. Whatever, it’s none of my business but it is interesting

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