FA Cup can only hold so much romance

March 10, 2008

ccfc.jpgYou wait 81 years for your football team to get to Wembley in the FA Cup, and then it falls on your wedding day.

My brother, a Cardiff City season-ticket holder,has waited until he is 45 to tie the knot, only to find his Bluebirds team are playing in the semi-finals of the FA Cup on the same weekend.

The last time CCFC were at Wembley was when they won it, in 1927.

It seems particularly cruel, as heĀ  as due to marry last November, but it was delayed because of problems with the venue and key guests being absent.

Now he faces the prospect of two of his ushers, also Cardiff City season-ticket holders, taking the trip up the M4 rather than down the aisle.

There’s not even the chance of a big screen to show the game – unless it goes up in the cathedral – as the wedding kicks-off at 3 p.m.

I thought I could sneak a radio and headphones into the service under a big hat. But I’m giving a reading, and it could be a bit dicey if a goal goes in.

I even suggested to my brother that if CCFC’s match was on the Sunday he could delay his honeymoon and book a London flight for that evening or following morning.But I believe his fiancee has already vetoed that idea.

They say you only get married once. But no disrespect to our beloved side,I can’t see Cardiff getting to the semi-finals again in my lifetime.

They also say the FA Cup is full of romance, but let’s be realistic: it can’t compete with a wedding.

SoI shall be toasting the bride and groom with good grace — and hoping I’ll get to see Cardiff at Wembley in the final.


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I think FA-cup should be played at the summer or something as it creates problem for the bigger teams that are playing in the Champions League

Posted by Mirha | Report as abusive

I’m sure if his fiance really loved and understood her groom-to-be, she’d find some way of accommodating his fanaticism?? It’s something of an invidious position to be in so I trust they will ultimately make the right choice. And once those choices have been made, I hope he doesn’t regret it for the rest of his life, and resent not being a part of that day of potential glory (and male interpretation of romance). All being well, Cardiff will get through and there’ll be the Final to look forward to – and attend.

I wish them both well for their married life together.

Posted by Mark Franklin | Report as abusive